Miss Happy Mess
Miss Happy Mess is a talk show for women who are wondering what the f*#k is going on in the world. Host writer and actor Kimberly-Rose Wolter was born and raised in Hawaiʻi and now lives in Los Angeles. She has questions about reinvention, self-identity, parenting, and the practical shit in life no one taught her. She talks with friends, family, and people wiser than her on topics ranging from "Do I need a partner to be happy?" to "Whatʻs an estate lawyer and do I need one?" No question is off limits. No conversation is too big or too small. This isnʻt a podcast meant to fix, itʻs a place to build community and support, Hawaiian Style!
Episodes
17 hours ago
17 hours ago
29 min
This is Producer Jill's favorite Happy Hour because it's K-Drama week! We talk about a form that is changing how we think about men, love, fantasy, and what great TV is. Kim is along for the ride and feeling the K-Drama fever. Has Jill successfully got Kim hooked?
5 days ago
5 days ago
50 min
Are you like Producer Jill and love, love, love K-Dramas? Or like Kim and wonder why everyone is obsessed with them? Joined by the co-hosts of the hit podcast Chasing K-Dramas, Chrissy Choi and Dulcé Sloan, we explore all things K-Drama: their history, popular tropes, genres, and why they're crossing demographics so successfully. And, of course, a solid list of recommended shows from the Chasing K-Drama duo.
Oct 23, 2026
Oct 23, 2026
23 min
Kim is convinced Pam's birth mother was a spy and creates a new show based on that theory. Jill tracks a shark in Busan. If you have an idea for an episode, let us know, cause that's how we met Pam and Linnea.
Oct 20, 2026
Oct 20, 2026
57 min
After a lifetime of looking for her birth mother, Pam Hasegawa doesn't find all the answers, but she finds a family she had only dreamed of.
Oct 16, 2026
Oct 16, 2026
24 min
After this week's chat with Luka Lyman, Jill and Kim discuss the beauty in collective care and being in the sandwich generation: caring for our children while also caring for our parents. Preparing for death is overwhelming, so after a brief grapple with it, in true Happy Mess style, we talk about Korea and Jill's latest Pokémon adventure. We are true to the brand, LOL!
Oct 13, 2026
Oct 13, 2026
47 min
Luka Lyman has lived experience on a topic most people don't want to discuss: caregiving and end-of-life care. Luka and Kim chat about the realities of caring for our elderly and how to slow down and meet them where they're at while balancing our own lives.
Oct 9, 2026
Oct 9, 2026
22 min
Samantha Quan, producer of Anora, was on the show this week! Jill and Kim discuss the struggle of staying true to oneself in the creative process, whether Kim will be comfortable if things really do go well, and Jill catching Pokémon in Korea. Tune in for a whole lotta happy mess!
Oct 6, 2026
Oct 6, 2026
45 min
People often talk about needing family and support when things go wrong, but what about when things go right? Samantha Quan, producer of the 2024 Oscar-winning film Anora, joins the show to discuss the power of family support, the joy of creating projects you believe in, and how to allow things to happen.
Oct 2, 2026
Oct 2, 2026
22 min
It's Aloha Friday! On this Happy Hour, Jill and Kim discuss this week's episode with Kim's mom, Lani. How lived experiences can be the same, but the point of view can alter the memory and what it's like to look at our moms as fully formed people and not just mom.
Sep 29, 2026
Sep 29, 2026
41 min
As a new single mother, Kim chats with the woman who taught her how to single-parent: her mother, Lani Johnson. They discuss dating, working, and how being an introvert with a very social child can be really hard and sometimes embarrassing.





