Miss Happy Mess
Miss Happy Mess is a talk show for women who are wondering what the f*#k is going on in the world. Host writer and actor Kimberly-Rose Wolter was born and raised in Hawaiʻi and now lives in Los Angeles. She has questions about reinvention, self-identity, parenting, and the practical shit in life no one taught her. She talks with friends, family, and people wiser than her on topics ranging from "Do I need a partner to be happy?" to "Whatʻs an estate lawyer and do I need one?" No question is off limits. No conversation is too big or too small. This isnʻt a podcast meant to fix, itʻs a place to build community and support, Hawaiian Style!
Episodes
4 days ago
4 days ago
26 min
All things The Odyssey. From Homer to Nolan to Akbar. All the different takes on this Epic and how they reflect our own lives. Our season one finale questions our values: does Jill want many boyfriends, who we are, and how we deal with our ever-changing lives?
Jul 21, 2026
Jul 21, 2026
1hr 1 min
Christopher Nolanʻs The Odyssey has just opened in theatres and this week Kim talks with Oxford-trained clinical psychologist and classicist Dr. Sam Akbar about her new book, The Odyssey Mindset: 7 Timeless Lessons on Strength, Resilience, and the Power of Purpose. A psychological toolkit that uses Homer's The Odyssey as a practical reference for navigating our own messy lives.
Jul 17, 2026
Jul 17, 2026
32 min
Producer Jill and Kim chat about trauma bangs vs. Charlieʻs Angelʻs bangs, to hairscape or not to hairscape, and the killer of creativity...perfection.
Jul 14, 2026
Jul 14, 2026
46 min
I chat with Hollywood stylist Brittany Madrigal about what hair means to her, how her on-set career has changed over the past decade, and how we bonded over lice.
Jul 10, 2026
Jul 10, 2026
23 min
After an insightful conversation with Janel Parrish about her endometriosis diagnosis, Kim and Producer Jill chat about the need for self-advocacy when it comes to our health, the true art of listening, and whether there are "good" swear words.
Jul 7, 2026
Jul 7, 2026
47 min
Actor Janel Parrish gets very real about her stage 4 endometriosis diagnosis. The pain and frustration that led to her empowerment and getting the correct surgery and treatment. If you have or have had a uterus or know someone who does, you need to hear this episode.
Jul 3, 2026
Jul 3, 2026
20 min
We are a happy mess this Friday. Producer Jill and Kim discuss the World Cup, showing up as our authentic selves, and the inspiration that is Donato Fatuesi.
Jun 30, 2026
Jun 30, 2026
49 min
Podcast host, model, actor, activist, producer, lumper, tour guide, factory worker, cheerleading coach, college graduate, and transgender witch, Donato Fatuesi comes to chat about all the jobs she's taken on her journey: she's pushed past fear, learned how businesses work from start to finish, and the bravery it takes to be creative.
Jun 26, 2026
Jun 26, 2026
22 min
We made a Substack! Producer Jill and Kim discuss moving on, procrastinating on making our own estate plans, and some of our earliest memories together.
Jun 23, 2026
Jun 23, 2026
41 min
Kim chats with Honolulu-based estate planning attorney Stephen Yim about directives, intentions, and how the most productive estate planning is about people, not paper.





