Miss Happy Mess

Miss Happy Mess is a talk show for women who are wondering what the f*#k is going on in the world. Host writer and actor Kimberly-Rose Wolter was born and raised in Hawaiʻi and now lives in Los Angeles. She has questions about reinvention, self-identity, parenting, and the practical shit in life no one taught her. She talks with friends, family, and people wiser than her on topics ranging from "Do I need a partner to be happy?" to "Whatʻs an estate lawyer and do I need one?" No question is off limits. No conversation is too big or too small. This isnʻt a podcast meant to fix, itʻs a place to build community and support, Hawaiian Style!

Episodes

3 hours ago

26 min

We're back, ready for Season Two! Jill and Kim chat about this season's first guest, the only female on the 1978 Hokule'a voyage, Marion Lyman-Mersereau; this season's theme- legacy; and whether individualism is the end of society. 

3 hours ago

26 min

4 days ago

54 min

On our season 2 premiere, I talk with Marion Lyman-Mersereau, the only woman on the Hokule'a's 1978 fated voyage that ended when the canoe flipped 6 hours after its launch. Leaving the 16-person crew stranded in the middle of the Pacific for nearly 2 days. We discuss how the voyage affected her, her memory of the famous waterman, Eddie Aikau, and the effect Hokule'a has had on generations since its initial voyage 50 years ago.

4 days ago

54 min

Jul 24, 2026

26 min

All things The Odyssey. From Homer to Nolan to Akbar. All the different takes on this Epic and how they reflect our own lives. Our season one finale questions our values: does Jill want many boyfriends, who we are, and how we deal with our ever-changing lives?

Jul 24, 2026

26 min

Jul 21, 2026

1 hr 1 min

Christopher Nolanʻs The Odyssey has just opened in theatres and this week Kim talks with Oxford-trained clinical psychologist and classicist Dr. Sam Akbar about her new book, The Odyssey Mindset: 7 Timeless Lessons on Strength, Resilience, and the Power of Purpose. A psychological toolkit that uses Homer's The Odyssey as a practical reference for navigating our own messy lives.  

Jul 21, 2026

1 hr 1 min

Jul 17, 2026

32 min

Producer Jill and Kim chat about trauma bangs vs. Charlieʻs Angelʻs bangs, to hairscape or not to hairscape, and the killer of creativity...perfection. 

Jul 17, 2026

32 min

Jul 14, 2026

46 min

I chat with Hollywood stylist Brittany Madrigal about what hair means to her, how her on-set career has changed over the past decade, and how we bonded over lice. 

Jul 14, 2026

46 min

Jul 10, 2026

23 min

After an insightful conversation with Janel Parrish about her endometriosis diagnosis, Kim and Producer Jill chat about the need for self-advocacy when it comes to our health, the true art of listening, and whether there are "good" swear words.

Jul 10, 2026

23 min

Jul 7, 2026

47 min

Actor Janel Parrish gets very real about her stage 4 endometriosis diagnosis. The pain and frustration that led to her empowerment and getting the correct surgery and treatment. If you have or have had a uterus or know someone who does, you need to hear this episode.

Jul 7, 2026

47 min

Jul 3, 2026

20 min

We are a happy mess this Friday. Producer Jill and Kim discuss the World Cup, showing up as our authentic selves, and the inspiration that is Donato Fatuesi. 

Jul 3, 2026

20 min

Jun 30, 2026

49 min

Podcast host, model, actor, activist, producer, lumper, tour guide, factory worker, cheerleading coach, college graduate, and transgender witch, Donato Fatuesi comes to chat about all the jobs she's taken on her journey: she's pushed past fear, learned how businesses work from start to finish, and the bravery it takes to be creative.

Jun 30, 2026

49 min

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